Wednesday, 22 September 2010
I wish I could find the strength to explain the pain at the aftermath of a hypomanic episode to you.
Mine are usually fueled by drinking for a few days in a row but can come upon me without any help, if they choose. This the opposite to the low of depression. It is not like being fully bi-polar. That usually involves mania and full loss of control.
This instead is like being so drunk or drugged that you have zero inhibitions. The thing is, you don't have to be drinking or drunk or drugged at the time for this to occur. It's just the result or precursor to a depressive low.
You feel invincible, mighty, incredible and bulletproof.
In the same way that a depressive state can drive you to self-destruct, so can a hypomanic state.
Usually, I don't have any idea of how much damage I've done. Usually, to friendships.
The worst thing is the shame you feel after it. The loss at destroying another friendship. The fear of what you've done or said. Although mine are few and far between, they are there.
I'm sorry if you have suffered at my hand when this is the case. I will not blame anyone else for it as it is me. I am it. There is no excuse good enough for the person it happens to.
I am sorry.