I sat down with my boss today and received an insight that changed the entire way I see a situation and how I will approach it from now on.
Instead of thinking I was the cause of a situation, I can now accept that what I'm experiencing has nothing to do with me.
Without giving any detail, all I can say is that it was a "well duh!" moment.
Often I look to myself to understand why something adverse is happening to me. Other times, I'm just completely selfish and think the world revolves around me :)
Talking to people is a good way to understand a situation when I've come up with no reasons of my own. Must remember that.